tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post280030522108998088..comments2024-01-17T16:50:36.336-05:00Comments on Susan DiMickele: It’s My Money!Susan DiMickelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13376687779868147687noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-4071871623740261702011-06-02T12:08:29.258-04:002011-06-02T12:08:29.258-04:00I'm enjoying all the comments as well as the p...I'm enjoying all the comments as well as the post--sounds like a lot of us are trying to figure out the same thing.<br /><br />Your honesty delights! Great story full of intentionality and humility. :)Ann Kroekerhttp://annkroeker.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-43996946395990397272011-05-31T21:34:30.674-04:002011-05-31T21:34:30.674-04:00Oh, ouch! Your last lines really hit home! How man...Oh, ouch! Your last lines really hit home! How many times have I acted the same as your little Abby? Mine, mine, mine!! Maybe I need a giving jar too, Susan :). Thanks for keeping me honest :).Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08263995875732832349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-22784859630619161932011-05-31T17:01:53.072-04:002011-05-31T17:01:53.072-04:00Susan,
Thanks for the link, and better than the li...Susan,<br />Thanks for the link, and better than the link, thanks for your story!<br /><br />"You can't do this! It's my money!" Oh, I know those words because it wasn't my kids' attitudes that forced me to start battling selfishness, it was my own.<br /><br />I love what you say about being intentional. Our kids aren't going to wake up and care about others. We need to lead them to that way of thinking, and sometimes it's hard and sometimes it stinks, but I think it's a battle worth fighting.<br /><br />Thanks again, Susan!Amy Sullivanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03571083038560430815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-51826145228042457142011-05-31T11:05:32.558-04:002011-05-31T11:05:32.558-04:00We gave our kids three quarters. One to save. One ...We gave our kids three quarters. One to save. One to spend. and one to give to Church. <br /><br />One son blew through all three quarters in the first day. <br /><br />The other kept all three. <br /><br />Sigh. We try.David Ruperthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04765017700988820676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-25081729195837951542011-05-31T06:09:11.224-04:002011-05-31T06:09:11.224-04:00So funny. Not really. I did something similar with...So funny. Not really. I did something similar with my kids when they were younger... I'd give them a weekly allowance for chores, etc., and then take back a little bit for taxes (reality-check #1) and a little bit for charity/tithe (reality check #2). They were much more confused and upset about the taxes than they were about the "giving back to charity" part.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-19367134169744551422011-05-31T00:55:14.004-04:002011-05-31T00:55:14.004-04:00Be patient with yourself and your children. Much ...Be patient with yourself and your children. Much as we'd like, and much we we try to model the behavior we want for the, they have their own minds. It is hard as I have two 20 year olds now that seem so selfish to me and are not they way I raised them to be. But they belong to God and I choose to believe they will look back later and choose the life we raised them to live.!<br />I did have to laugh though at your story :)Shandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14337476167174497223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-17729981988612631822011-05-30T09:28:24.282-04:002011-05-30T09:28:24.282-04:00Oh, the little queen -- I love it! I'm still c...Oh, the little queen -- I love it! I'm still chuckling from both your post and Michelle's comment up there. Can't wait to read her post.<br /><br />You're right -- baby steps. And I love your honesty. Somedays, sometimes, I am like the queen.Laura@OutnumberedMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10764574855540659528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-12668749349381104052011-05-30T08:09:50.131-04:002011-05-30T08:09:50.131-04:00I have witnessed similar tantrums in our church of...I have witnessed similar tantrums in our church office - a two year old staring down his Mum when told to put his offering in an envelop 'But why, its mine!'. We big kids sometimes do the same, even if it is quietly!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8444751395260978471.post-84977011665009625812011-05-29T23:20:08.306-04:002011-05-29T23:20:08.306-04:00I'm laughing at this one -- we've had a si...I'm laughing at this one -- we've had a similar discussion (argument) here at our house. It's ironic -- I have a guest post ready to go for this Wednesday about how to begin to cultivate an attitude of gratitude in kids...and no sooner had I emailed it when we had a cataclysimic ingratitude fest here (which resulted in me hauling a bunch of toys from my kids' rooms into the minivan to donate to the GoodWill in a fury!). I'll be writing about that incident this week, too. Just goes to show you, two steps forward, one step back in this gratitude cultivation (or maybe one step forward, two steps back...for me especially?).Michelle DeRushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00359712465784943599noreply@blogger.com